If we were having a girl, we wouldn’t be having this conversation. Girl names are a cinch! We’ve got tons of them…
A boy on the other hand… IMPOSSIBLE to name!
The first 20 weeks of this pregnancy I would go into a panic attack every time I tried to think of a name. I panic that I won’t be able to find one I like, or that I will wake up a week after having the baby or 2 years after having the baby and HATE the name! (That still reallllly worries me.)
I realized that I couldn’t keep doing that to myself so I decided to wait until I knew for sure whether it was a girl or boy before I worked myself into another fit..
Now we know..and now it isn’t any easier.
We have thought of a lot of names.. but nothing jumps out at me.. Nothing screams.. “THIS IS HIS NAME”
Nothing.
So here is what we have thought of….
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Elijah – We would call him Eli. This is my dad’s favorite. One of ours also, but we really want a little girl named Ellie one day. Eli and Ellie are too close in name.. for kids that aren’t twins..
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Luke – good fall back name… but a little boring..
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Joel – also a little boring..
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Kyle – I don’t really know why I like this name, but I kinda do. Again.. not love..
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River – When his sister in law was pregnant this was the name we were all pulling for. I LOVE this name.. but just don’t know if I actually could..
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Joey – Boring.. but cute. Even before we knew what we were having his grandparents told us that they would really like a Joseph in the family. I was already thinking Joey at that point, but it made it a little more special.
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Aiden – ehhh. I like it… but its a little trendy. Plus my cousin has a little boy named Brayden.. and it just sounds to close..
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Miles – OUR FAVORITE! but no one else likes it.. :( Which I hate.. If this baby was born today, his name would be Miles. We are totally in love with it. It still will probably be one of the top contenders.. but it makes me really sad that no one in my family likes it…
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Milo – This got vetoed faster than Miles. But also one of our favorites. I just don’t feel like its a very grown up name.
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Oliver – We like Oliver. Not love.. but strong like..
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Preston – Aaron has a really good friend named Preston. But he’s a great guy..and we like this name too..
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Elliot – MY FAVORITE! This was my first favorite. (Before Miles) it was actually one of my top contenders for a girls name (then call her Ellie) But I really like it for a boy also. BUT.. if we use this now, we loose our chance to use Ellie later. Since we’ll probably call him El.. or even Elli sometimes..
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Mason – I really like Mason. It’s my sisters middle name. Which I really like. But sounds a little silly with Eaton.
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Dylan or Dilan – Like this name.. but we’ve never given it a lot of thought. Just threw it out there one day and we both liked it, so it made it to the list.
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Cooper – I just want to call him Coop! I like Cooper.. but we’ve never really seriously discussed it either..
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Carter – Same with Carter. Like it.. just never thought much about it.
So.. these names are all on a white board on our fridge.. we look at them a few times a night just hoping one will jump out and bite us in the face!!! So far nothing has…
Aaron was talking to the baby the other night in bed, and called him Milo. I looked at him and said.. “Is that what we decided?” Then he called him Miles. It sounded sooooo perfect.. It just was right… Just felt right..
Our only draw back with Miles is the plural.. if I tell Aaron to go get his socks I have to say “Can you go gets Mileses socks?” Which sounds really dumb.. I know that.. And I admit it… but… I still like it… We still like it.
I don’t think we are going to officially decide on 1 name.. I think we will have our favorite name and a back up or two.. just in case he doesn’t look like what we’ve decided.
Thoughts??????????????????????
oh.. also.. remember our last name is Eaton. Most names that end with N sound pretty silly with it. BUT some sound okay..